You should spend about 40 minutes on this task.
Present a written argument or case to an educated reader with no specialist knowledge of the following topic:
In some countries, marriages are arranged by the parents but in other cases, people choose their own marriage partner.
Discuss both systems.
You should write at least 250 words.
Use your own ideas, knowledge and experience and support your arguments with examples and with relevant evidence.
Marriage is the core institution of human societies. Societies evolve mode and method for choosing of spouse, in conformity with their peculiar socio-economic, religious, and political conditions and according to their level of cultural advancement. This shows the differences in the attitude of societies towards marriage. Some believe that parents should decide who their children marry with, while others hold that individuals should be free to select their wed. The essay will be dealt with these two views.
In an arranged marriage, two persons tie the nuptial knot only with the consent of their parents and the blessing of their relatives. Married couple could resort to their parents or relatives at the time of problems like maladjustment or misbehave. Moreover, when the marriage proves to be a failure, they have a number of people around them to seek support. Their parents would come forward to solve the problems between the couple and most of the cases they are able to solve their problems. This is the cause why, arranged marriage is deemed secure in many societies.
However, in many societies, people want to select their partner and they believe that the right to choose their wed is one of basic rights they ought to have. In this case, two people tie the wedding knot generally after falling in love with each other or after knowing each other for a long time. They get plenty of time to explore both the bad and good traits of each other, long before their marriage. This understanding is very conducive in the adjustment after marriage. There is a less chance in arising complexities.
To sum up, different societies have different norms and customs depending on their own values. Whether parents take the decision or people make their own, I think the key to successful marriage is love, trust, mutual respect, care, and commitment.