You should spend about 40 minutes on this task.
Do you agree or disagree with the following statement?
A problem shared is a problem solved. Use specific reasons and examples to support your answer.
Give reasons for your answer and include any relevant examples from your own knowledge or experience.
Write at least 250 words.
Many problem comes across in life are needed to be solved. Fixing these problem is often crucial for us. People try to solve these problems largely by sharing with others or fixing them alone. It actually depends on individual how he would like to solve the problem. However, in my case, I prefer sharing my problem with others since it helps me to select best possible solution from various suggestions, it helps me to relief pains, and it keeps our family tie firm.
Firstly, the reason why I believe in sharing the problem with others is it that offers me several suggestions from which I can choose the best solution that suit my difficulties. Discussion concerning a problem very often presents useful solutions. I would like to discuss my problem with my family members, colleagues, and others who have enough experience since people with enough experience are in a position to focus me on different aspects of my problem and their advice and comments are invaluable to me. Moreover, discussion with such persons not helps to find the solution of the specific problem, but also suggests the general approach to the given problem, and it is obviously a great gift for the future.
Secondly, problems are the kind of burden to me. I always eager to share my burdens with others, because it gives a sort of relief no matter whether or not I get the solution. So whenever I fell in trouble, I always share the issue with the near and dear. Let me give you an example. Few year ago, I was in severe financial crisis that led me to despair. I discussed it with my friends. Although they did little help financially, but their sympathetic attitude helped me to handle the situation efficiently. That is to say that sharing problems not only helps directly, but also helps indirectly sometimes.
Thirdly, the most important reason is that sharing problems with family members is meant family bonding. Members are likely to be much more intimate through sharing their problems with each other. For example, when I broke up with my girlfriend, I was so frustrated that I even thought about suicide. However, I discussed it with my sister and she gave me a great counseling. From that day, my relation with my sister is more harmonious than ever before.
In fine, every day, we meet with several problems. Different people combat with their problems in different ways. Personally, I believe that we should discuss it with others first, since it opens multitude avenues towards solution, helps to get relief, and tights the family knot.